Gracie Abrams and Paul Mescal have quietly become one of Hollywood's most intriguing couples. The singer-songwriter and the Oscar-nominated actor have been linked since late 2023, and their relationship has evolved from whispered rumors to red-carpet appearances. While both tend to keep their personal lives private, fans have pieced together a timeline of their romance through photos, concert sightings, and the rare interview comment.
What makes their connection especially notable is how it has grown over more than two years, with plenty of ups and downs along the way. Here is a comprehensive look at every major beat in Gracie Abrams and Paul Mescal's relationship.
Summer 2020: A Cute Social Media Exchange
Before any romance rumors began, Gracie and Paul shared a small but memorable interaction on Twitter. The exchange was simple enough, but it captured the attention of fans who immediately noticed a spark. At the time, neither was famous to the other's audience, but the moment would later be revisited once they were linked romantically.
October 2023: First Dating Rumors
In October 2023, a tip sent to an entertainment gossip outlet claimed that Paul and Gracie were hanging out or dating. The source noted that they had heard it from two different people, though they hadn't seen the pair together firsthand. Around the same time, a British tabloid reported that Paul had signed up for a dating app, which only complicated the narrative. Fans were left to wonder whether the connection was real or just a fleeting coincidence.
March 2024: A Misleading Rumor
By March 2024, rumors emerged that Paul was dating actress Sophie Wilde. A report claimed the two had gotten close after an awards season event and were seen together at an after-party. However, this story never gained traction and was never confirmed with photos. In hindsight, it appears to have been either a misdirection or a short-lived moment that faded quickly.
May 2024: Reports of a Broken Heart
In May 2024, another anonymous tip suggested that Paul had broken Gracie's heart late the previous year. According to the source, fans believed they first met in London after Paul attended one of Gracie's shows. Their Instagram interactions had fueled speculation, but the supposed heartbreak added a layer of drama to the narrative. Whether or not that was accurate, it made the eventual public dates all the more surprising.
June 2024: Their First Public Sighting
The first concrete evidence of a romance came in June 2024, when Paul and Gracie were spotted together at a restaurant in London. Photos from the outing showed the two clearly enjoying each other's company, and fans quickly identified the location as BRAT, a popular spot in the city. This sighting transformed speculation into something much more real.
July 2024: A Low-Key Shopping Date
The following month, the couple was photographed shopping together in Mayfair. A source described the outing as very discreet, noting that both Paul and Gracie are low-key people. They reportedly kept their distance from each other while walking down Bond Street, but their relaxed body language suggested a comfort level that only comes with familiarity.
August 2024: Holding Hands
In August 2024, the first photo of Paul and Gracie holding hands emerged, and there was no denying they looked like a couple. Around the same time, a source told a major publication that the two had been hooking up and that the relationship was still in its early stages. This marked the beginning of their public acknowledgment as an item.
October 2024: Supporting Each Other
Paul attended Gracie's concert at Radio City Music Hall in New York City in October 2024. An insider claimed the two were going strong. A few weeks later, Paul was spotted at the Eras Tour, where Gracie was performing as an opening act. His presence at both events signaled that their relationship was becoming more serious.
November 2024: Their Red Carpet Debut
In November 2024, Gracie appeared at the premiere of Paul's film Gladiator II in Los Angeles. It was their first public event together, and it instantly made headlines. Soon after, a source said that Paul and Gracie were the real deal and were even planning a vacation together in the new year. The source added that they were always in communication and at the top of their game.
December 2024: SNL and a Late-Night Sighting
Gracie made her Saturday Night Live debut in December 2024. After the show, fans spotted her and Paul in New York City, exiting a car and entering a building together while holding hands. The sighting was brief but offered a rare glimpse into their private lives.
February 2025: Gracie Opens Up About Love
In February 2025, Gracie graced the digital cover of a major women's magazine, where she discussed her evolving views on relationships. Without directly naming Paul, she said, "What I love about a healthy relationship is that your life doesn't radically change. You just fit into each other in a way that feels positively challenging and deeply supportive—it's like a place to land." The quote was widely interpreted as a reflection on her romance with Paul.
April 2025: Still Going Strong
An insider told People in April 2025 that Gracie and Paul were making each other a priority despite their busy schedules. "There's no denying the strong chemistry between Paul and Gracie, true lovebirds," the source said. The update reassured fans that the couple was maintaining their bond even amid demanding professional commitments.
May 2025: Cannes Appearance
In May 2025, Gracie walked the red carpet at the Cannes Film Festival premiere of Paul's film The History of Sound. While they did not pose together, her attendance was seen as a significant show of support. Fans interpreted the appearance as further proof that they were very much an item.
June 2025: Picnic and Glastonbury
The couple was spotted on a picnic date in North London's Highbury Fields in June 2025, just before Gracie's Glastonbury debut. Paul was also seen in the crowd during her set, and a source said he was incredibly proud of her. The source described how Paul loved being with their friends as Gracie saw her dream of performing at Glastonbury come true. The couple also appeared to have a wonderful time during Olivia Rodrigo's performance with The Cure's Robert Smith.
July 2025: Grid Official
By July 2025, Gracie and Paul were officially Instagram official. Gracie shared a sweet post recapping their festival weekend, which included photos of the two together. It was a significant step for a couple that generally prefers to keep things out of the spotlight.
September 2025: Rare Insight from Paul
In September 2025, Gracie posted yet another photo with Paul on Instagram. Soon after, Paul offered rare insight into their relationship during an interview with Rolling Stone.
When asked about his decision to keep the romance private, he explained, "Everything to do with that is deeply precious to me. I want to protect those things fundamentally." The quote melted hearts and reinforced the idea that their bond was built on trust and intentionality.
November 2025: Fan Photos in Paris
During a trip to Paris in November 2025, a fan snapped a photo of Gracie and Paul looking completely in love. Another fan even managed to grab a selfie with the couple. These informal images went viral because they showed a relaxed and happy side of the pair that is rarely seen publicly.
January 2026: Golden Globes and a Sweet Shoutout
In January 2026, Paul walked the Golden Globes red carpet solo, but Gracie appeared at the after-parties, where they were photographed holding hands. Later that month, Gracie took to Instagram to praise Paul for his performance in Hamnet. Her caption was deeply emotional, calling the film "singular" and Paul "singular." She also shared a picture of Paul smoking a cigarette while wearing a Shakespeare t-shirt and wrote, "Also I love him surprise."
February 2026: Birthday Love and BAFTAs
Gracie continued to share her affection in February 2026. For Paul's birthday, she posted a series of loved-up photos, captioned, "P❤️ Clemmy❤️ My whole heart!!!!!!!!! I love February 2… Happy birthday❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love you both more than words could ever describe. Thank you for making everything better."
The couple also made a rare red carpet appearance at the BAFTAs, where Paul was nominated for Hamnet.
March 2026: Oscars Surprise
Gracie made a surprise appearance alongside Paul at the Oscars red carpet in March 2026. They looked seriously in love while wearing coordinating black-and-white looks. Hamnet was nominated for multiple awards, including Best Picture, making it a significant moment for both of them.
June 2026: Vogue and a Songwriting Collaboration
In her Vogue cover story, Gracie gave fans a rare glimpse into their home life, describing Paul as someone who makes every day feel like reading the greatest book ever. Later that month, she revealed during an interview with The New York Times' Popcast that she and Paul had co-written the track "Imaginary Friend" from her forthcoming album.
"That was so fun to write together. That wasn't some groundbreaking event for us," she explained. "We have a very creative home with friends who are so good at what they do, and everyone feels happy to share that with one another."
She also addressed the scrutiny that comes with dating a star like Paul, saying, "I don't like the feeling of hiding. I also love privacy where it feels like the right thing."
August 2026: Songwriting Inspiration
In August 2026, Gracie told Rolling Stone how her relationship with Paul had transformed her songwriting. "It's had the most amazing effect on my writing," she said. "It has given me the most amount of space to reflect on everything in my life. It has held a mirror to me in ways that I didn't know a relationship with another person of any kind could."
She went on to explain that the relationship gave her perspective on previous relationships, her family, and her friendships. "It is the greatest gift, period," she added.
From a simple Twitter exchange to co-writing music and walking red carpets together, Gracie Abrams and Paul Mescal have built a relationship that feels both grounded and deeply romantic. With every new sighting and comment, it becomes clearer that they remain committed to protecting the special connection they share.
Source: MSN News